a few good men...

when ur recently single...the worst kind of fate awaits you.
matchmaking friends.
dont get me wrong. friends are great.
i know they are well meaning.
BUT.....

so these days i get lectured on "being open" ... "more accomodating".
on "how to stop looking for the 'purrrfect' man".
oh and did i mention "be nice" ... "be sexy"??
isnt that an oxy moron?
the two i thought were mutually exclusive...since "nice" girls are not "sexy" and "sexy" girls are not "nice".

ive not found that perfect balance between the two so im still bumbling my way through "dates".
oh and did i mention they are all "blind"??

are u worried about too many "within quotes" in this post???
i am too....very worried....each time im introduced to a guy who "just happens to be single" someone we just "happen to run into"!!!

and i seem to have forgotten the dating rules.
the other day when i asked this boy his name...he said "whatever u want me to be"!!
wasnt that part of the list of cheesiest things you never say?!
or has that list now changed? im not sure..

over the next few weeks il be telling you all the things we have to endure to land that perfect date.
but after 3 disastrous attempts all in one night later....my confidence maybe shaken.
so i wanna think hard about what i want out of life.
what is it that i want to be.

in the meantime il continue my education and update you.
feel free to send all those "single" entries my way.
i promise il be sexy...or nice.
or whatever...



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